Monday, July 11, 2011
Poll
Please answer the poll at the bottom. I just re-opened it. I really want to know what people will say.
Love
Some people have it in their heads that there are different kinds of love. Movies and TV shows have shoved down our throats since we first could understand spoken words that there is a way you love your siblings, and a completely different way you love someone romantically. (Even Barbie movies- aimed towards 4-7 years olds- are dealing with romantic problems and relationship issues. This kind of messes kids up a little bit.) But I think that love is love is love- just different degrees of love. That's why there are no "different kinds" of love. And why love can never be a disorder. It is never wrong to love someone- for you religious folks out there, God is supposed to love you, right? Even if you're bad? And you're supposed to love him back... even though all you have is blind faith that he is there. And some people think that there are people who God has forsaken completely- (God Hates Fags, anyone? :P)
Speaking of which, my little saying "love is never a disorder" comes in handy here. It isn't wrong for two people of the same sex to love each other romantically- would ANYONE'S God frown on that? And if he does, shame on him for making gays in the first place. And why do other people think that they have the right to say who people can love and who people cannot love? Why do people insist on butting into people's love lives and declaring them "sick" and "wrong"? Everyone has the right to love. Even aromantic people. They still have to capacity to love. Y'know, they don't really love romantically- hence the 'a'- but they still love.
And, no matter how you love someone (and I am not talking about sex here... get your minds out of the sewers) it is never wrong. I'll bet everyone here is thinking of the crazy people who love people so much they kidnap them and lock them up (think Mother Gothel) but, really, love is never the problem. (generally the person is just messed up anyway.) There are so many different and complicated ways you could love someone (and I am NOT an expert- please) that I couldn't possibly cover them all. But, just repeat this to yourself- love is not a disorder. Say it. Love is not a disorder. It never is. As long as you remember that, you will be healthy, wealthy, and wise.
But, don't get confused- love isn't a disorder, there is nothing inherently wrong with any kind of love, but it can be a problem. But I won't get into that here.
Speaking of which, my little saying "love is never a disorder" comes in handy here. It isn't wrong for two people of the same sex to love each other romantically- would ANYONE'S God frown on that? And if he does, shame on him for making gays in the first place. And why do other people think that they have the right to say who people can love and who people cannot love? Why do people insist on butting into people's love lives and declaring them "sick" and "wrong"? Everyone has the right to love. Even aromantic people. They still have to capacity to love. Y'know, they don't really love romantically- hence the 'a'- but they still love.
And, no matter how you love someone (and I am not talking about sex here... get your minds out of the sewers) it is never wrong. I'll bet everyone here is thinking of the crazy people who love people so much they kidnap them and lock them up (think Mother Gothel) but, really, love is never the problem. (generally the person is just messed up anyway.) There are so many different and complicated ways you could love someone (and I am NOT an expert- please) that I couldn't possibly cover them all. But, just repeat this to yourself- love is not a disorder. Say it. Love is not a disorder. It never is. As long as you remember that, you will be healthy, wealthy, and wise.
But, don't get confused- love isn't a disorder, there is nothing inherently wrong with any kind of love, but it can be a problem. But I won't get into that here.
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